Sherry Turkle 教授:科技和人性的精彩演讲

 

今天下午,我在 hypertextual  网站上,花了 20 分钟,听了 Turkle 教授的演讲。

“This is a awesome talk by Sherry Turkle. Turkle is a professor in the Program in Science, Technology and Society at MIT and the founder and director of the MIT Initiative on Technology and Self.”

Turkle 教授是美国 MIT 大学科技与社会系教授。如果你的生活过度依靠电子产品, 像我一样,这场演讲或能给你和我带来一丝反省。

我用心听了20分钟。如果你去 hypertextual  或 TED 网站收看,可以看到中文字幕(繁体/简体)。 (我尝试链接过来,但失败,所以用了 youtube  的英文版)

值得你细心聆听。我很喜欢她演讲的风采,沉稳、自信、优雅。这么有风采的女人,真令人钦佩啊!

 “I share therefore I am”. Turkle 教授提到了很多人的生存状态是  ‘我分享,故我在’ 。

她说电子科技其实还在起步阶段,我们必须主宰科技,不要让科技替代了人与人之间的真实的沟通。

有几点内容我特别喜欢:

1)要教会孩子独处的重要。独处是重要的生活能力。

2)在家里,有的地方,如客厅,或吃饭的时候,要杜绝电子产品。要增进对话的能力。要把这些属于家的地盘夺回来。

3)我们俨然已把   connection (联系)取代了 conversation (会话)。我们已经忘了真正的关心。

4)会话 --就算是无聊的内容,别人的结结巴巴,也是会话的一部分。

以下是演讲的部分内容:

Parents text and email during breakfast while children complain about not having their parents full attention. And the same children deny each others their full attention as they’re texting (therefore are not together) while they are together.

We remove ourselves from grief and revery and go into our phone. Why does it matter ? It matters to me because we’re setting ourselves into troubles. Troubles in how we relate to each other but also troubles in how we relate to ourselves, our capacity for self reflection.

This fifty year old business man told me he feels he doesn’t have colleagues anymore at work. When he goes to work, he doesn’t stop to talk to anybody, he does not call, he says he doesn’t want to interrupt his colleagues because they’re too busy on their email. But then he stops himself and says I’m not telling you the truth. Actually I’m the one who doesn’t want to be interrupted.

People want to control the distance with their relationships : not too close, not too far, just right. But what might be right for this middle age businessman might be a problem for an adolescent that needs face to face relationship.

A 18 year old who does everything via texting told me “someday, but certainly not now, I would love to learn how to have a conversation”. When I ask what’s wrong with having a conversation, people say : “it takes place in real time, and you can’t control what’s you’re gonna say.” That’s the bottom line : texting, email, posting, all these things help us present ourselves as we want to be. We get to edit and that’s mean we get to delete, and we get to retouch, not too little, not too much, just right.

Human relationships are rich, messy and demanding. We’re cleaning them up with technology. We sacrifice conversation for mere connection. We seem to stop caring.

That feeling that no one is listening to me is very important in our relationship with technology. This feeling makes us want to spend time with machines that seems to care about us. We expect more from technology and less from each other. Technology appeals us most where we are most vulnerable. We’re lonely but we are afraid of intimacy. We are designing technology that gives us the illusion of companionship without the demands of friendship. We turn to technology to keep us connected in ways we can easily control.

Constant connection is changing the way people think of themselves. It’s shaping a new human being. The best way to describe it is : “I share therefore I am”. We use technology to define ourselves by sharing our thoughts and feelings. Before it was, I have a feeling, I want to make a call. Now it’s : “I want to have a feeling, I need to send a text”.

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Janet Williams 張玉雲

I am Janet Williams, an academic living in the southeast of England. I blog about culture, history, languages and my community. I created Chandler's Ford Today. During my spare time, I make Origami. Thank you for stopping by.

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